Comments on: Squirting Vaginas Turn Me On!! http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/ Sexploits of a Morally Questionable College Student Sat, 28 Nov 2009 01:27:09 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: Z http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1414 Z Sat, 28 Nov 2009 01:27:09 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1414 Dude. Don't comment on my blog if you take what I say out of context. And please stop defending her. Did you miss the part in my post where I SAY her article could have easily been misconstrued? You're not worth even debating with because your points are explained in my post. Go read it again if you didn't catch everything. Dude. Don’t comment on my blog if you take what I say out of context. And please stop defending her. Did you miss the part in my post where I SAY her article could have easily been misconstrued?

You’re not worth even debating with because your points are explained in my post. Go read it again if you didn’t catch everything.

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By: Mr. Toy With Me http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1405 Mr. Toy With Me Thu, 26 Nov 2009 16:32:28 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1405 <<<>>Comment on my post Sure. You say the following: >>"Then The Kinky Jew’s article on why exactly women should be ashamed of squirting is for you." Where in the article does she say that women should be ashamed of squirting? >>>turning an opinion article into something that is intended to shame women into feeling like squirting is wrong You think that the intent of the article was to shame women? That she sat down and said..."hmmm, how can I go about shaming women with this post?" I think your reaching. Listen, all she did was say that after watching some porn that she found squirting yucky. She certainly never said that because you squirt, then you must be disgusting. She asks why people find it desirable. She says that she doesn't understand it. If you take this video and show it to 100 women off the street I bet that many of them would say. "ew." http://www.keezmovies.com/395742 If that reaction makes you feel ashamed because you don't feel the same way, well then I really don't know what to say to you. <<<>>Comment on my post

Sure.

You say the following:

>>”Then The Kinky Jew’s article on why exactly women should be ashamed of squirting is for you.”

Where in the article does she say that women should be ashamed of squirting?

>>>turning an opinion article into something that is intended to shame women into feeling like squirting is wrong

You think that the intent of the article was to shame women? That she sat down and said…”hmmm, how can I go about shaming women with this post?”
I think your reaching.

Listen, all she did was say that after watching some porn that she found squirting yucky. She certainly never said that because you squirt, then you must be disgusting. She asks why people find it desirable. She says that she doesn’t understand it.

If you take this video and show it to 100 women off the street I bet that many of them would say. “ew.”

http://www.keezmovies.com/395742

If that reaction makes you feel ashamed because you don’t feel the same way, well then I really don’t know what to say to you.

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By: Dharma http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1403 Dharma Thu, 26 Nov 2009 10:31:48 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1403 Oh man, I haven't read this article...and I'm not going to tonight. But from your post, I can tell I'm not going to be too thrilled about the content. I'm a gusher. Big time. Apparently, The Kinky Jew has never had an ejaculatory orgasm, otherwise she wouldn't be asking why it's so important. Also, not sure how female ejaculate is any more or less sanitary than semen. What a douche. (Ha!) Oh man, I haven’t read this article…and I’m not going to tonight. But from your post, I can tell I’m not going to be too thrilled about the content.

I’m a gusher. Big time. Apparently, The Kinky Jew has never had an ejaculatory orgasm, otherwise she wouldn’t be asking why it’s so important.

Also, not sure how female ejaculate is any more or less sanitary than semen. What a douche. (Ha!)

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By: Z http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1399 Z Thu, 26 Nov 2009 06:16:28 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1399 Thank you for your comment. But please don't berate me for the words of others. Those are their own opinions. I said in my post here that I understand that a humorous tone can be lost when things get written down. I don't bash the KJ personally, so please don't bash me as though I am part of the collective. Don't use my blog to preach to others. Comment on my post. Not on the actions of others. And on that note, if you still feel the need to berate me for other's actions, don't use my blog to do it. Email me. Thank you. Thank you for your comment. But please don’t berate me for the words of others. Those are their own opinions. I said in my post here that I understand that a humorous tone can be lost when things get written down. I don’t bash the KJ personally, so please don’t bash me as though I am part of the collective. Don’t use my blog to preach to others. Comment on my post. Not on the actions of others.

And on that note, if you still feel the need to berate me for other’s actions, don’t use my blog to do it. Email me.

Thank you.

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By: Mr. Toy With Me http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1398 Mr. Toy With Me Wed, 25 Nov 2009 20:53:36 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1398 This is pretty much what I posted in the comment thread with a couple other tidbits thrown in: I have to say that i watched this whole thing explode with a mixture of bemusement and WTF? A few things……. I think that the image that accompanies the post sets the tone as to what the post was supposed to be. A silly post that questioned the appeal of female ejaculation. Some of you obviously read it in a different light. I have to say that I am a bit taken back by some of the comments about it though……Here is a small sampling: “Shame on you @toywithme” “I am outraged” “this article is disgusting and offensive” “stop judging and shaming women, like men have done for long enough” “You appear to be disturbingly insecure” “I am similarly appalled and irritated by this article” “Your arrogance is unbecoming in a writer” “There’s enough crime against women in this world already, we don’t need other women perpetrating it against each other.” “I was outraged” Now we even have Nadia West making analogies that draws comparisons to the Jews being persecuted by the Nazis? A bit over the top no? If she had posted that she thinks it is disgusting to see a women take a facial would you all be similarly appalled and offended if this was something you enjoyed? Many have posted that this analogy is mute as squirting is a an involuntary physical reaction. I think that the comparison is valid as the context in which the post was written was seeing porn in which the argument could be made the the squirting was certainly an act that was voluntary. The type of porn she was describing involves stimulating the g-spot for the sole purpose of “the money shot.” I have read the post over and over and I can not find one statement in it that says that she finds women who squirt disgusting. What she does say is that she finds female ejaculate gross. That’s it. She admits that she doesn’t get it. She says she doesn’t understand it. She asks why is it desirable. She had no intent whatsoever to offend anybody. I really am truly saddened by some of the comments on this post and on twitter. I can tell you that toywithme regrets and is embarrassed by her reaction to some of them and I think that many of you should be as well. Peace. This is pretty much what I posted in the comment thread with a couple other tidbits thrown in:

I have to say that i watched this whole thing explode with a mixture of bemusement and WTF?

A few things…….

I think that the image that accompanies the post sets the tone as to what the post was supposed to be. A silly post that questioned the appeal of female ejaculation. Some of you obviously read it in a different light. I have to say that I am a bit taken back by some of the comments about it though……Here is a small sampling:

“Shame on you @toywithme”
“I am outraged”
“this article is disgusting and offensive”
“stop judging and shaming women, like men have done for long enough”
“You appear to be disturbingly insecure”
“I am similarly appalled and irritated by this article”
“Your arrogance is unbecoming in a writer”
“There’s enough crime against women in this world already, we don’t need other women perpetrating it against each other.”
“I was outraged”

Now we even have Nadia West making analogies that draws comparisons to the Jews being persecuted by the Nazis?

A bit over the top no?

If she had posted that she thinks it is disgusting to see a women take a facial would you all be similarly appalled and offended if this was something you enjoyed?

Many have posted that this analogy is mute as squirting is a an involuntary physical reaction. I think that the comparison is valid as the context in which the post was written was seeing porn in which the argument could be made the the squirting was certainly an act that was voluntary. The type of porn she was describing involves stimulating the g-spot for the sole purpose of “the money shot.”

I have read the post over and over and I can not find one statement in it that says that she finds women who squirt disgusting. What she does say is that she finds female ejaculate gross. That’s it. She admits that she doesn’t get it. She says she doesn’t understand it. She asks why is it desirable. She had no intent whatsoever to offend anybody.

I really am truly saddened by some of the comments on this post and on twitter. I can tell you that toywithme regrets and is embarrassed by her reaction to some of them and I think that many of you should be as well.

Peace.

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By: Puddle Jumper http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1396 Puddle Jumper Wed, 25 Nov 2009 11:56:03 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1396 I am down with this post in so many ways. I think it's awful when women decide to go off about how another woman's body is gross. I don't squirt, I've never had a partner that squirts but that doesn't mean that I find it somehow foul and distasteful. Sex is messy. What's that line? It's like exercise, if you're not sweaty and ugly afterwords you're not doing it right? We, as women, get enough shit about how our bodies should look and work that we don't need it from each other. Go, Z. I am down with this post in so many ways. I think it’s awful when women decide to go off about how another woman’s body is gross. I don’t squirt, I’ve never had a partner that squirts but that doesn’t mean that I find it somehow foul and distasteful. Sex is messy. What’s that line? It’s like exercise, if you’re not sweaty and ugly afterwords you’re not doing it right?

We, as women, get enough shit about how our bodies should look and work that we don’t need it from each other.

Go, Z.

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By: slave b (formerly Tightly Bound) http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1395 slave b (formerly Tightly Bound) Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:00:56 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1395 i agree that a squirting vagina is a massive turn on, i love it! Sounds like KJ does have some fairly "close minded" views on it all - i agree, its not a big deal, some women do, some dont and theres nothing wrong with it at all :-) i agree that a squirting vagina is a massive turn on, i love it! Sounds like KJ does have some fairly “close minded” views on it all – i agree, its not a big deal, some women do, some dont and theres nothing wrong with it at all :-)

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By: Fat Controller http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1393 Fat Controller Tue, 24 Nov 2009 14:28:44 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1393 up until a few days ago I wouldn't have had any opinion on this, but just having experienced our first squirt in 30 years of being together, I have to say that whether it was sanitary or not was farthest from our minds. it was simply a mind-blowing experience that has brought us even closer together. up until a few days ago I wouldn’t have had any opinion on this, but just having experienced our first squirt in 30 years of being together, I have to say that whether it was sanitary or not was farthest from our minds. it was simply a mind-blowing experience that has brought us even closer together.

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By: Britni TheVadgeWig http://phaedrafallen.com/2009/11/24/squirting-vaginas-turn-me-on/#comment-1392 Britni TheVadgeWig Tue, 24 Nov 2009 06:34:06 +0000 http://phaedrafallen.com/?p=991#comment-1392 I just posted my own thoughts on this. And removed their link from my sidebar. They're a fairly new blog, they could have used this publicity and outrage as a platform to welcome new readers, explain their point of view, and open discourse and discussion. But instead, they attacked the people that were commenting and participating in their blog. Eff that. I just posted my own thoughts on this. And removed their link from my sidebar. They’re a fairly new blog, they could have used this publicity and outrage as a platform to welcome new readers, explain their point of view, and open discourse and discussion. But instead, they attacked the people that were commenting and participating in their blog.

Eff that.

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