Mundane Life Update

26 01 2009
  • Since my roommates are bitches and I’m sick of dealing with them I’m moving into a new apartment this week. So yeah. Might not be around that much. Ha. Lies. I’m addicted to the internet, who am I kidding.
  • New apartment has two outside walls, a wall bordering the stairwell and one wall in the apartment that has the bathroom, my door and my new roommate’s closet on it. Yay for being able to be loud, possibly, now. :D   Unpacking is a bitch though. So will getting my rug to the new apartment……ugh. (I have a big ass oriental rug that used to be in the dining room of my old house) X is helping me out. Probably should enlist the aid of more men.
  • Orgasm record is up to 17 now. I think X just likes besting his own record. We went at it for an hour and a half yesterday. I was seriously impressed.
  • Kissing has been at an all time high this week. There has been kissing from V, and then, I don’t know why, but there has been LOADS more kissing from X. This is both during sex and not. I will not complain in the least. I love, love, love kissing. Note to self: write post about kissing.
  • Anal has not been working his week. My ass is being finicky, no matter how slow we go and how worked up we get me, it just hasn’t been feeling right this week. :(
  • X is lame and offered to help me pack today. Instead he came over and feel asleep on my bed. The guy is utterly useless at times. (And you know I say that in the nicest way possible hun. Because I know you’re gonna read this. Lol.)
  • Brand new obsession with ‘The Guild.’ Felicia Day is my brand new celebrity crush. She’s ungodly, awkwardly adorable. <3 Watch the amazingness that is The Guild here.
  • Planning on dying my hair dark red this week. Hopefully ASAP. I get in moods where I need change. This will be said change. (And the red hair has NOTHING to do with my new found love of Felicia Day…..oh no………>.> )
  • Hopefully getting more piercings this week. I hope, I hope, I hope. At least getting good jewlery for my cartilage peircings that won’t fall out. Found a cute one with an ankh on it.

Sorry this was random. And it’s not like any of you really care about 99% of this. But it is my blog. And I enjoy writing out the mundane activities of my mundane life. ;D


20 01 2009

I would just like to say that I’m pretty sure I cross the double diget line tonight.

My former record was 8 or 9 which was pretty good. I casually mentioned the other night that we should try for double digits sometime. X just sort of laughed at me and we resumed whatever we’d been talking about.

We’ve found the best way to get me off is with me on top. This is also the only way we’ve figured out how to get me to squirt. When I’m on top I can position my hips at the right angle and once I cum once it’s like a fucking orgasm button. Sometimes it take a bit to get me to cum or squirt at first. But after that it’s quite literally orgasm after orgasm. X tells me there’s only roughly a minute or two between each orgasam. I usually am a bit too distracted to really pay attention.

But seriously. Tonight, we hit roughly 10 or 11. Possibly more considering there were at least two orgasms that had two orgasms that hit me almost at the same time. I usually stop trying to cum after four or five because I get tired and I switch to focusing on getting X off.  Sometimes I get off again while I’m getting him off. But tonight, he didn’t stop. He gripped my hips and just fucked me. Even when I tried to pull off of him he held me down.

Oh. My. God.

I’m quite content right now.


20 09 2008

I rarely orgasm with X and sometimes, I’m not sure if I ever really have.

And it’s not that I don’t know what an orgasm is. Oh, believe me, I do. I have no problems getting myself off with my fingers or my vibrator. I can bring myself to the edge over and over again, letting my body cool down a bit each time before teasing myself again until I finally let myself cum. And we’re talking tingling in my toes, body shaking, vision darkening, gasping orgasms where I can feel tiny convulsions in my pussy for 10 to 15 minutes later. I’ve never had an orgasm even close to that with X.

To give him kudos, he has made me squirt twice now. And each time I’m starting to understand the mechanics of how it happens a little better. But other than that. Nothing. No body shaking or vision darkening with him. And I’m not saying I don’t enjoy sex with him, or that I’m not satisfied afterwards. I just don’t think I cum.

Most times, during sex, there gets to be a point where the sensations get so good and so intense that I feel like I can barely take anymore. I usually grip the bedsheets or X’s biceps as I tense up and demand more. And then without any hurrah it just lessens. Things aren’t so intense anymore and I can breath. It’s during those time that I’ve squirted. Which makes me think that the intensity and sudden decrease of it, might be a small orgasm. But it feels nothing like the orgasms I can give myself.

I’ve gotten the tingling in my toes and the warmth pooling in my gut that usually signifies an orgasm when I’m masturbating a few times with X too. It’s just that we’ve changed positions or he’s changed the angle and I’ve just lost it.

Seeing as X is the only guy, aside from my random one night thing a few weeks ago, I’ve slept with I really can’t be a judge but I don’t think it’s entirely X’s fault that I don’t orgasm. I honestly think it’s difficult to get me to cum. And sex is still amazing, and I still want it all the time. 

But still. I don’t know. What does everyone else think about this conundrum?